This is for all you girls

This is from a really good book, it helped me a few years ago :) :

If you have to be the aggressor, if you have to pursue, if you have to do the asking out, nine times out of ten, he's just not that into you.

An excuse is a polite rejection. Men are not afraid of "ruining the friendship".

Men don't forget how much they like you. So put down the phone.

What you should see is you being treated so well that no phone antics will be necessary. You'll be too busy being adored.

If he's not calling you, it's because you are not on his mind.

Don't be with someone who doesn't do what they say they're going to do.

If he's choosing not to make a simple effort that would put you at ease and bring harmony to a recurring fight, then he doesn't respect your feelings and needs.

"Busy" is another word for "asshole". "Asshole" is another word for the guy you're dating.

You deserve a fucking phone call.

Better than nothing is not good enough for you.

There's a guy out there who will want to tell everyone that he's your boyfriend. Quit goofing around and go find him.

Your lost self-esteem may take longer to find than a new boyfriend, so prioritize accordingly.

He's just not that into you if he's having sex with someone else.

If you are in a mutually established monogamous relationship, then when someone cheats on you, they have decided to blatantly disrespect a very important decision you two made together. They've chosen to do this without your knowledge, thereby adding lies and secrecy to your relationship.

Your only responsibility in someone else's lapse in judgement is to yourself.

Ladies, don't let your desire to be loved and feel affection cloud your judgement.

If he wants to see you, talk to you, have sex with you, etc., when he's inebriated, it ain't love- it's sport.

Don't spend your time on and give your heart to any guy who makes you wonder about anything related to his feelings for you.

If you don't feel like you're rushing, why are you waiting?

Breaking up means not seeing them again. It may be tempting to forget this pearl of wisdom, but just remember, it's still called breakup sex.

Cut him off. Let him miss you.

There's no mystery- he's gone and he wasn't good enough for you.

Unless he's all yours, he's still hers.

Life is hard enough as it is without choosing someone difficult to share it with.

Freaks should remain at the circus, not in your apartment.

You already have one asshole. You don't need another

his is what it says on my shower gel, its such a sweet poem

philosophy®: have a baby if you've ever wondered what your soul looks like. have a baby if you dare to feel the winds of heaven each time you feel their breath across your cheek. have a baby if you have it all and it's still not enough. have a baby if you have found your purpose but your purpose hasn't really found you. have a baby if you ever wondered what "mother nature" really means. have a baby if you need proof that God truly does exist. have a baby if you would prefer to see a younger, more beautiful face in the mirror, have a baby if you dare to test your faith in God in every imaginable way. have a baby if you have trouble staying in the moment. have a baby if you have stopped believing in miracles. have a baby if you need to change your hardened exterior into something soft, pliable and flexible. have a baby if the idea of sacrifice and surrender for all the right reasons appeals to you. have a baby if you long to hear God call on you 24-7. have a baby if you can't put your finger on what is missing from your life. have a baby if you love things that smell wonderful. a baby smells better. have a baby if you love, love. have a baby if you have lost your innocence, a baby will find it for you.


* Don't worry I'm not wanting a baby for a good few years yet!

This is for all you girls

This is from a really good book, it helped me a few years ago :) :

If you have to be the aggressor, if you have to pursue, if you have to do the asking out, nine times out of ten, he's just not that into you.

An excuse is a polite rejection. Men are not afraid of "ruining the friendship".

Men don't forget how much they like you. So put down the phone.

What you should see is you being treated so well that no phone antics will be necessary. You'll be too busy being adored.

If he's not calling you, it's because you are not on his mind.

Don't be with someone who doesn't do what they say they're going to do.

If he's choosing not to make a simple effort that would put you at ease and bring harmony to a recurring fight, then he doesn't respect your feelings and needs.

"Busy" is another word for "asshole". "Asshole" is another word for the guy you're dating.

You deserve a fucking phone call.

Better than nothing is not good enough for you.

There's a guy out there who will want to tell everyone that he's your boyfriend. Quit goofing around and go find him.

Your lost self-esteem may take longer to find than a new boyfriend, so prioritize accordingly.

He's just not that into you if he's having sex with someone else.

If you are in a mutually established monogamous relationship, then when someone cheats on you, they have decided to blatantly disrespect a very important decision you two made together. They've chosen to do this without your knowledge, thereby adding lies and secrecy to your relationship.

Your only responsibility in someone else's lapse in judgement is to yourself.

Ladies, don't let your desire to be loved and feel affection cloud your judgement.

If he wants to see you, talk to you, have sex with you, etc., when he's inebriated, it ain't love- it's sport.

Don't spend your time on and give your heart to any guy who makes you wonder about anything related to his feelings for you.

If you don't feel like you're rushing, why are you waiting?

Breaking up means not seeing them again. It may be tempting to forget this pearl of wisdom, but just remember, it's still called breakup sex.

Cut him off. Let him miss you.

There's no mystery- he's gone and he wasn't good enough for you.

Unless he's all yours, he's still hers.

Life is hard enough as it is without choosing someone difficult to share it with.

Freaks should remain at the circus, not in your apartment.

You already have one asshole. You don't need another

his is what it says on my shower gel, its such a sweet poem

philosophy®: have a baby if you've ever wondered what your soul looks like. have a baby if you dare to feel the winds of heaven each time you feel their breath across your cheek. have a baby if you have it all and it's still not enough. have a baby if you have found your purpose but your purpose hasn't really found you. have a baby if you ever wondered what "mother nature" really means. have a baby if you need proof that God truly does exist. have a baby if you would prefer to see a younger, more beautiful face in the mirror, have a baby if you dare to test your faith in God in every imaginable way. have a baby if you have trouble staying in the moment. have a baby if you have stopped believing in miracles. have a baby if you need to change your hardened exterior into something soft, pliable and flexible. have a baby if the idea of sacrifice and surrender for all the right reasons appeals to you. have a baby if you long to hear God call on you 24-7. have a baby if you can't put your finger on what is missing from your life. have a baby if you love things that smell wonderful. a baby smells better. have a baby if you love, love. have a baby if you have lost your innocence, a baby will find it for you.


* Don't worry I'm not wanting a baby for a good few years yet!